It is permissible for the husband and wife to bath together in the same place even though he sees her private parts, and she sees his. This is established by a number of authentic hadith, among them:
On the authority of Mu’aawiya ibn Haida, who said: “I said: `O Messenger of Allaah, which of our nakedness is allowed, and of which must we beware?’ The Prophet answered, “Guard your nakedness except from your wife or those whom your right hand possesses.” (So it is permissible for both spouses to look at and touch the body of his or her companion even the private parts). He said: `O Messenger of Allah, what about if the relatives live together with each other?’ The Prophet answered : “If you can make sure that no one ever sees your nakedness, then do so.” He said: `O Messenger of Allah, what about when one is alone?’ The Prophet said: “Allah is more deserving of your modesty than are the people”.”[Ahmad, Abu Dawood, at-Tirmizi].
On the authority of Aishah (RA) who said: “I used to bathe with the Prophet from a single container of water which was placed between us such that our hands collided inside it. He used to race me such that I would say: `Leave some for me, leave some for me!’ She added: `We were in a state of Janaba (i.e. the state of having slept together).’”[Hadith: Bukharee and Muslim].
Mandi bersama juga merupakan perkara penting untuk menjaga kemesraan suami isteri. Mandi bersama dapat menjadikan hiburan yang menyenangkan sekaligus menyegarkan. Rasulullah SAW sebagai role-model kita juga mencontohkan mandi bersama isterinya, sebagaimana diriwayatkan pada hadith diatas.
Mari kita dengar ulasan dari Dr. Asri berhubungan dengan perkara diatas tuhhh.
Pernahkah anda mandi bersama-sama laki/bini anda? Kalau belum, anda patut mencubanya….dok gitu?. It would be great if the tok laki and bini bath together,……saling jiruh-menjiruh serta gosok-menggosok adalah amalan yang cukup bermakna dalam kehidupan laki-bini.
Bila bercerita pasal hal nih, akan ada dikalangan orang melayu yang akan berkata…”alohhh… tua-tua ni pun nok mandi sekali lagi…oooo ‘gelenya’ weh”, & ’sudah nak mampus’(version p.ramlee).
Kita tokse buat sebab dulu tok nenek kita tak buat, padahal amalan ni adalah sunah Rasulullah, kita mengaku yang kita ni umat Rasulullah tapi amalan yang sebegini mudah & mendapat ganjaran pahala ini pun kita tak amboh buat.
Lagi satu masalahnya ialah sifat “MALU” yang amat menebal terutamanya pada bini. Malu konon. Nabi pun mandi bersama bini dia Aisyah. Kita pulak yang malu tak pasal-pasal.
Amalan mandi bersama ni jugak boleh menjadi pemangkin kemesraan hubungan laki-bini. Just imagine…dalam suasana berdua dalam satu tempat mandi, dan dalam suasana sejuk itu tentunya laki-bini akan terdorong untuk lebih mesra dan intim, keeping a healthy relationship blooming…..dok keneh?
SELAMAT MENCUBA….ANDA LAKI-BINI PASTI SUKAKAN NYA.
petikan:http://sementoja.wordpress.com/2009/12/31/sunnah-mandi-bersama/
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